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Talking To Grief: When Death Comes - Mary Oliver

Talking To Grief

Grief is a journey we take in the privacy of our hearts. Perhaps we share it with our closest family or friends, a pastor, or a counselor. Mostly, we grieve in silence. There is little for us of ritual, of practice, of creating space to honor our loved one after the funeral, after flower arrangements wither, and the last casserole and baked ham is devoured. Denise Levertov's poem "Talking To Grief" inspired me to start this blog. I, Meridith Gresher, welcome you to join me as I talk aloud.

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

When Death Comes - Mary Oliver

When death comes
like the hungry bear in autumn;
when death comes and takes all the bright coins from his purse

to buy me, and snaps the purse shut:
when death comes
like the measles - pox;

when death comes
like an iceburg between the shoulder blades,

I want to step through the door full of curiosity, wondering:
what is it going to be like, that cottage of darkness?

And therefore I look upon everything
as a brotherhood and a sisterhood,
and I look upon time as no more than an idea,
as I consider eternity as another possibility,

and I think of each life as a flower, as common
as a field daisy, and as singular,

and each name a comfortable music in the mouth
tending as all music does, toward silence,

and each body a lion of courage, and something
precious to the earth.

When it's over, I want to say: all my life
I was a bride married to amazement.
I was a bridegroom taking the world into my arms.

When it's over, I don't want to wonder
if I have made of my life something particular, and real.

I don't want to find myself sighing and frightened
or full of argument.

I don't want to end up simply having visited this world.

~ Mary Oliver

To read much more of Mary Oliver you can click here Mary Oliver's Poems

1 Comments:

At 8:57 AM, Anonymous Denise said...

I liked your article, feel free to blog about a grief and bereavement site I created at http://www.remembered-forever.org

 

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